Burial Clothes: Choosing Clothing for the Deceased

Selecting the appropriate burial clothes for a loved one is a deeply personal and significant aspect of funeral planning. This task, while sensitive, offers family and friends a chance to honour the deceased’s life, personality and preferences. The choice of attire not only pays respect to the departed but also contributes to the overall tone and dignity of the funeral service.

Understanding the Significance

The tradition of dressing the deceased in special attire dates back centuries and varies widely across cultures and religions. It’s often seen as a way to show respect and care for the loved one on their final journey. The chosen attire can reflect the deceased’s life, their personal style and sometimes their final wishes.



Reflecting Personal Style

When deciding on burial clothes, considering the personal style of the deceased is important. Think about their favourite outfits, colours, and how they liked to present themselves. For some, this might mean a formal suit or dress they wore on special occasions. For others, it could be something more casual and reflective of their everyday style. The aim is to ensure the attire resonates with how the individual lived their life.

Cultural and Religious Considerations

Cultural and religious beliefs often play a significant role in the choice of burial attire. Some traditions specify certain types of clothing or colours, while others may require specific ceremonial garments. It’s important to consult with family members or religious leaders to understand these requirements and honour them appropriately.

Comfort and Practicality

While aesthetics are important, the comfort of the deceased should also be considered. Soft, natural fabrics are often recommended as they are gentler on the skin. In addition, the clothes should be easy to put on, with considerations made for any physical changes that may have occurred.

Accessories and Personal Items

Including personal items or accessories with the burial clothes can add a meaningful touch. This might be a piece of jewellery, a watch, or even a favourite book. However, it’s important to consider the policies of the chosen funeral home or burial site regarding such items, as some may have restrictions.

Where to Find Burial Clothes

Burial clothes can be sourced from various places. Families often choose an outfit from the deceased’s own wardrobe, which adds a personal and meaningful element. Alternatively, clothing can be purchased from funeral homes that offer specially designed funeral gowns or from retailers that provide appropriate attire. Online stores also have a selection of funeral wear, offering options for those who may not find the right outfit locally.

Involving Loved Ones

Involving family members and close friends in choosing the burial clothes can be a comforting process. It allows for a shared moment of remembrance and can help in making a decision that feels right to everyone involved.

Respecting Wishes

If the deceased had expressed specific wishes regarding their burial attire, it’s important to respect and honour those preferences. Whether it’s a written request or a known preference, honouring these wishes is a meaningful way to pay tribute to their individuality.

Professional Assistance

Professional funeral directors are invaluable resources when planning funeral attire. They can offer guidance on suitable options, taking into account any cultural, religious or personal preferences. They can also assist with dressing the deceased, ensuring the attire is presented respectfully and appropriately.

Conclusion

Choosing burial clothes for a loved one is a significant part of the funeral planning process, allowing for a final act of care and respect. By considering the deceased’s personal style, cultural and religious traditions, and involving loved ones in the decision-making process, the chosen attire can serve as a heartfelt tribute to their life and legacy. This process, while emotional, can also provide a sense of closure and peace for those left behind, knowing they have honoured their loved ones in a fitting and respectful manner. 

Quantock Funeral Services, an independent, family-managed firm with locations in Taunton and Wellington, Somerset, provides comprehensive funeral arrangements with a personal touch during challenging times. Our firm excels in handling all elements of funeral planning, including registration, selection of coffins, dressing the deceased, transportation, obituaries, music selection, floral tributes and all necessary paperwork.

Corrine has over 15 years of experience in the business and is one of the most qualified funeral directors in Somerset. We are dedicated to offering bespoke services around the clock, catering to every requirement from traditional burials to green and woodland burials, including horse-drawn and military funerals. We also provide Golden Charter pre-paid funeral plans for those wishing to plan ahead. Our pricing structure is transparent, covering both our professional fees and third-party costs, with an interest-free option for external charges, ensuring clarity and support for families during bereavement.

For more information about our firm or the services we provide, contact us via our website. Or give us a call in Taunton, at 01823 231859, or in Wellington, at 01823 213576.