Family Bearers: Honouring Your Loved One with Dignity

July 8, 2024

Family Bearers: Honouring Your Loved One with Dignity

Quantock Funeral Directors understand that every detail of a funeral service is significant. One of the most profound ways to honour your loved one is by having family members serve as bearers. This deeply personal act allows family and close friends to participate directly in the final journey of their loved one, creating a poignant and meaningful farewell.


Carrying the Coffin: A Family's Honour


Traditionally, the coffin is carried by four or six bearers. This act is not only a show of strength and respect but also a way for the family to feel more connected to the ceremony. Carrying the coffin on shoulders is a time-honoured practice that many find deeply moving and respectful.


Family Involvement


Involving family members as bearers can provide a sense of closure and participation in the funeral process. It can be a healing act, allowing close relatives to feel they are providing the utmost respect and care for their departed loved one. However, it's important to ensure that those chosen as bearers are physically capable of performing this task. The coffin's weight and the emotional weight of the moment can be significant.


Assistance from Our Staff


If there are not enough family members available or able to act as bearers, our experienced staff at Quantock Funeral Directors are always ready to assist. We can provide additional bearers to support the family members, ensuring that the process is smooth and dignified. Our team is trained to handle these duties with the utmost care and respect, ensuring your loved one’s final journey is as serene and honourable as possible.


Alternatives to Shoulder Bearing


For families who prefer not to carry the coffin on shoulders, or for those concerned about the physical demands, we offer an alternative: a wheeled bier. This allows the family to participate in a different yet equally respectful manner.


Using a Wheeled Bier


With a wheeled bier, the coffin is placed securely on a trolley, which can be gently guided into the chapel. Family members can walk alongside, resting their hands on the coffin as it moves. This option provides a dignified way for the family to be involved without the need for physical lifting, accommodating those who may find the traditional bearing role challenging.




Why Choose Quantock Funeral Directors?


At Quantock Funeral Directors, we are committed to providing compassionate and personalised funeral services tailored to the needs and wishes of each family. Whether you choose to have family members as bearers or prefer the use of a wheeled bier, we are here to support you every step of the way.


-Personalised Care: We take the time to understand your family’s needs and preferences.

-Professional Assistance: Dawn and Rob are always available to provide support and guidance.

- Dignified Services: We ensure that every aspect of the funeral is conducted with the utmost respect and dignity.


Contact Us


If you have any questions about family bearers or any other aspect of our funeral services, please do not hesitate to contact us. We are here to assist you in creating a memorable and heartfelt farewell for your loved one.


For more information or to arrange a consultation, please browse our website or call us at 277938.  At Quantock Funeral Directors, we are honoured to serve you and your family during this difficult time.


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Quantock Funeral Directors

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