Options for the end of the funeral service

rob parker • December 3, 2024

Options for the End of the Funeral Service

When planning a funeral, every detail matters, as it shapes how family and friends say their final goodbyes. At Quantock Funeral Directors, we understand how important it is to create a ceremony that feels personal and meaningful. One aspect to consider is the choice of what happens at the end of the service regarding the curtains surrounding the coffin.


This decision may seem small, but it can be deeply significant. Below, we outline the available options, helping you make a choice that reflects the wishes of your loved one and the preferences of their family.


1. Thin Veil Curtains Only


This option allows a delicate veil to close around the coffin. The light, semi-transparent material creates a subtle moment of transition, marking the end of the service without a heavy visual closure. Many families find this choice fitting when they wish to retain a sense of openness while symbolising farewell.


2. Veil and Heavy Curtains Together


For those seeking a more defined conclusion to the service, both the veil and the heavier, opaque curtains can close. This provides a more formal and final gesture, often chosen for its sense of closure. Families who want a moment of reflection or quiet reverence may find this option particularly moving.


3. Curtains Remain Open


If preferred, the curtains can remain open at the end the service. This option is ideal for families who wish to keep the coffin visible as they leave, offering the opportunity for loved ones to approach the coffin, perhaps to place a flower, a note, or simply pause for a personal farewell. It creates a more interactive and personal way to say goodbye.


Choosing the Right Option


The right choice depends entirely on the tone and wishes of the family. Each option offers its own sense of meaning, and there’s no right or wrong way to say goodbye. If you're unsure, our experienced team at Quantock Funeral Directors is here to guide you through the decision-making process with care and understanding.


Supporting You Every Step of the Way


At Quantock Funeral Directors, serving Taunton, Wellington, and the surrounding areas, we are committed to helping families create a service that honours their loved ones in a respectful and heartfelt manner. Whether you're making arrangements or simply seeking advice, we are always here to provide guidance.


For more information about our services or to discuss your preferences, please don’t hesitate to get in touch with us.


Let us help you honour your loved ones in a way that feels right for you and your family.


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